Trolling and bullying. Michelle: Victim or Abuser?

I never planned on posting the whole story, but after 2 years,  I’m tired of Michelle attacking me, and damaging my reputation. So, for now, this is just part of the story.

More than 2 years ago I hired Michelle to work on my boat. Things ended up really, really bad, she was drunk the whole time during the sailing trip, she even smoked marijuana in front of me (marijuana is illegal in Panama and I DO NOT WANT to have anything illegal on my boat)

I do not allow drinking alcohol during sailing voyages and I have a zero-tolerance policy on illegal drugs.

I asked Michelle to leave the boat, explaining her all my issues and problems with her and her work performance. She did not want to leave the boat! Michelle is very manipulative, she uses deception, coercion, even threats to get her needs met. Michelle is also the kind of person “give her a finger, and she will take the whole hand”, she always wanted something, she wanted more, and more…. for FREE, she just wanted stay on the boat “for free”, only “few more days”, than again “few more days”….  Finally, we had to involve Coast Guard and Police to get rid of her !

After she left we noticed $400, and some snorkeling gear missing from the boat.

Nasty, ugly character.

I left her and her boyfriend in Colombia, they stayed in the hotel, few days later her boyfriend left her. ( no surprise, I had conversation with him before all that happened, and he told me, he is trying to end this crazy relationship with her )

After all “the drama” she started posting crazy stories about me and my boat everywhere on the internet, facebook, her personal blogs, she even commented on other people’s blogs who did trip with me, and were happy about the trip. Enough.

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As a revenge I started blog about Michelle. She contacted me, asked me to remove it, and make peace. I agreed under one condition – she will try to fix the damage she had done to my reputation ( she did not keep her word, anyway), few months after I removed the blog (made it private only), I received e-mail from friend that Michelle started attacking me again ( social media)

So I reopened my blogs and I will keep it up to date.

Michelle is attacking me every few months, posting crazy stories about me. The last one, her psychotic imagination:
“Rumor in the Caribbean has it that she had recently killed her husband by giving him an injection of a fatal drug that made his heart explode, only to be with her true love. her ship mate Oliver. People of the Caribbean often spoke of her violence and would hide their children when they would see her ship approach the villages”
(written by Michelle Milne Jones on her blog:https://michellemilnejones.wordpress.com )

Sick, sick, sick, psychotic mind.

I will not let Michelle Milne Jones destroy me !
I will fight back ! No – I will not make up crazy stories, as Michelle is making up stories about me, I will just expose the REAL MICHELLE trough her posts: cyberbegging, online begging, internet panhandling, asking for donations…. and all her lies and scams.

After each of her attack on me, I tried to warn people of her activities: deceiving, stealing, scamming and bullying.

I urge all of you who have been abused or deceived in any way by Michelle Milne Jones – don’t be afraid of her, speak up!

Here are copies of my conversations with Michelle.

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On Tuesday, September 10, 2013, Bea wrote:
Michelle, thank you for your email.
Deep inside you know that this is not the true story you want to publish, it is not what happened and how it happened.
Deep inside you should know that you changed the details and you exaggerated it.
It is not only the blog, you sent email to the hostels, to fuck me up. I don’t know about the scale of the damage you have done, but I know you did it, because the hostels contacted me.
Ulises found your passport, I will give it to Jack.
I don’t want war with you, I just want peace, but I can not watch you destroying me, and do not react.
All the best,
Bea

——– Original Message ——–
Subject: Re:
From: Michelle
Date: Tue, September 10, 2013 9:22 am
To: “Bea”

I understand Bea,

I think we have both been acting like bad children! :-/
Have you ever heard that saying… Two people can be sitting in the same car, driving down the same road with the same views and those two people see two completely different realities? Well maybe this is what happened to us.

I am willing to make name and boat name changes and even publish as fiction… And to make it up to you, share the proceeds. Also I meant to mark that story private yesterday but I got super busy and distracted! I will do it today.

Lets both delete everything that we did to hurt each other and start fresh? Make peace, not war.

Your message makes me cry… I hate fighting!

Not sure when I will get back down there but I will and I hope to see you then? Maybe by then we will laugh about it all.

Again, I am so sorry I hurt you! The stupid fight wasn’t even about us and really I sometimes wish I had stayed on your boat when you begged me! I think it really would have been better for both of us! I was sooooooo pissed off at Sean for ripping me off and leaving me behind with the hotel bill and taking my money! I just wanted to share the story. It was all about Sean… Not you.

Also I will make it up to you by running an ad with your website on my website. Just let me know and send the info. This I will to do it for free.

I will make a public apology 🙂

Love you girl!!!

Michelle I agree, but I don’t want you to make up to me by sharing the proceeds, I also don’t want any ad for free, just please try to fix the damage you did it to me by posting good review
and email the hostels you emailed before, but this time, with good review about my boat and trip. You don’t have to post anything good about me as a person or the captain, just about the trip.
Also, you don’t have to do it as you, under your name, just 2 good sentences about the trip, because as you know, I try to make good food, and Im very concern about safety onboard. The rest of the problems between us was personal, and I believe that you would not say that the food was bad or not enough, or I did not care about safety, right?

Please let me know if you agree.

Also I want to assure you 100% that I was not going, not planning and not flirting with Sean, and I have proof, because at that time, when everything happened, I was in relationship, and Im sure if you would look closer what was happening on the boat, you would have noticed it.

Please let me know what you think about my proposition.

All the best,
Bea

On Friday, September 20, 2013, Michelle wrote:
Luna’s is the only place I mailed dear and yes. My friends are going to San Blas and said they will pick up that passport. Please leave it with Jack. Next time I come that way I will pick up some passengers for you. Bea are you interested in doing some marketing for me? You are very good! Hehehe ❤ ❤ ❤

On Friday, September 20, 2013, Bea wrote:
Michelle thank you I will remove the web today, could you please send the same to mamallena and luna’s castle.
I know you send email with bad review to them before, after the trip.

——- Original Message ——–
Subject: Re: Trip advisor
From: Michelle
Date: Sat, September 21, 2013 8:12 am
To: “Bea

Bea you prommised to take that site down. Please do it. Then I will call Luna’s.

——– Original Message ——–
Subject: Re: Trip advisor
From: Michelle
Date: Sun, September 22, 2013 5:20 am
To: “Bea”

Bea, what is your phone number? Can I call you please?

On Saturday, September 21, 2013, Michelle wrote:
Bea I just checked and it is still there. With more BS comments.

On Saturday, September 21, 2013, Bea wrote:
Michelle I did take the website down, please email Luna, send me copy (CC or BCC) and I will remove the comments website also. Let me know. Greetings.

——– Original Message ——–

From: Michelle
Date: Tue, September 24, 2013 5:41 am
To: “Bea”

Bea,
the website is not down. The content has been deleted that’s all. There is a way to delete the entire thing. I have been learning to dive. Fun but creepy! Lol so busy and tired! Writing stories, placing ads… Bla bla… Loads of work. Anyway if you could send me the number to Luna’s castle I will call them at lunch if I can. Also there is a couple sailing to Portebelo along with their SIX kids! Mark and Ruth… Hehehe crazy THEY are! I love them and you will too! All of them. Anyway I didn’t get a chance to talk with them before they headed out. Please when you see them ask them to call me? 6836-3098 Please give Jack the passport and ask him to give it to them? I really want to call and talk to you. Please send me your number? Or call after noon today. Thanks sweetie. ❤

On Tuesday, September 24, 2013, Bea wrote:
Michelle, I will not be available for the next few days, going for the trip.
I took the content out from the page, the same way you did it on yours, made it private, I think it is enough, I have learned to be very cautious and do not trust people easily , maybe one day you will make your content available again, who knows.
Also, many times I asked you to email Luna’s Castle, and send me BCC copy, you never did it, and that was the deal between us, you agreed to send the email, and fix it.
Phone call will not fix anything.
All the best, will talk to you in few days, going to Colombia now.

——– Original Message ——–
From: Michelle
Date: Wed, September 25, 2013 8:23 pm
To: “Bea”

Bea I will get to it! Really need to pass this test! I know you don’t know me well but believe me when I tell you that I will not be reposting that blog. It’s old news 🙂 it would be easier to just call them. I will google their number.

In September 2013 Michelle wants to "make peace" with me, April 2014 - she was "tired of visiting places who recommend me"

In September 2013 Michelle wanted to “make peace” with me, April 2014 – she was “tired of visiting places that recommend me” Michelle Milne Jones is unstoppable …. she never stops attacking me, and destroying my reputation. SHE IS TIRED OF TRYING TO DESTROY ME!

And here is copy of message I received from woman, from Bocas, the woman who helped Michelle :

“Sorry you had to experience her deception and betrayal. She has left a trail of damaged reputations behind her. She showed up at my resort, referred by a common acquaintance, wanting to volunteer, claiming experience successfully running a B&B in Costa Rica, and needing to get out of Bocas. I fell for her tears and sincerity, her enthusiasm, and trusted her. Most likely, the same happened to uou. Whatever the circumstances, her tactics are the same. Within a month of her arrival, she paired with a well established, financially secure male friend who was my electrician and computer tech, and lied to make it appear I was the alcoholic and cocaine addict, eventually manipulating people with lies to divide and conquer, and drove a wedge within our community which has never healed. Needless to say, she stole money from the bar till, and webt into my personal home and “borrowed my jewelry,” which I never saw again…after loaning her $. She owes money to many expats in Bocas. In her Bocas years she never once had a job, and lived with whomever would support her, never monogamous. Seriously stupid men out there!

Michelle Milne Jones demonstrated distinct sociopathic tendencies:
No conscience or guilt evident when confronted;
Unable to feel remorse;
Not willing to consider or accept consequences;
Uses pity

She will continue to use and abuse others. She tends to prey upon good hearted, trusting women and men. I urge you you follow her blogs when you can, and post on them daily, on fb, wordpress, and whatever venue she uses to alert people to her abuse. She is a very destructive person.
I can add to this~ she contacted a man in the U.S. whom I had dated and began a romantic relationship, claimed to be my friend and asked to stay at his house in LA. Imagine my surprise when he told me! A visceral reaction. She is evil.”

I urge all of you who have been abused or deceived in any way by Michelle Milne Jones – don’t be afraid of her, speak up!

December 2014, Michelle still posting crazy stories about me. https://michellemilnejones.wordpress.com/2014/12/27/unstoppable-2/

December 2014, Michelle still posting crazy stories about me.
https://michellemilnejones.wordpress.com/2014/12/27/unstoppable-2/

January 2015, Michelle blogging about me again.

January 2015, Michelle still blogging about me .

January 2015, Michelle attacking again.....

March 2015, Michelle attacking again…..

Kenny Miller’s Letter To Dillon Police About Michelle Milne-Jones

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To Dillon Police Department:

“Michelle and her friend came down the stairs.  I told them what was going on with Cole.  Told them to quit smoking pot in the house and told Nicki to get out and go home.  Michelle threw a glass of wine @ me.  I tried to get out of the way & knocked Cole somehow.  I then left and spent the night with a friend.  I returned the next day and told Michelle I was going to Dillon to hunt elk.  She blocked the door and wouldn’t let me go for about 1 hour.  She then called a friend & made arrangement for Cole to go to her friend’s for the rest of the week.  She then told me she was going too.  We got to Dillon – went to a bar and had drinks and pizza.  We called Best Western – found we had a…

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Michelle and her son Jeffrey Junior

“My Son Jeffery is using that as a poor me like he has always done even to his pathetic father. YES Jeffery needs help and it is my understanding that he is getting the help he needs. If you read my entire blog you will understand why Jeffery is so messed up! Ask Jeffery if he and my mother did it because we didn’t want it to start to stink! JESK! I didn’t see you offering to help with paying for a professional! Yea it sucks that they did it but I am grateful for them that they did. I was not able to!”

Read more here, how cruel is this woman: (source)

WARNING—NOTICE TO ALL WHO MAY COME INTO CONTACT WITH MICHELLE

WARNING——NOTICE TO ALL WHO MAY COME INTO CONTACT WITH MICHELLE — For your safety and security, prior to engaging in any relationship or transaction with this person it would be in your best interest to do some research, including a thorough background check. You might be surprised at what you discover. For critical referral information on Michelle, you can contact me at katmil992@aol.com

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If you’re considering a request for a donation , do some research before you give. By finding out as much as you can about the charity, you can avoid fraudsters who try to take advantage of your generosity. Here are tips to help make sure your charitable contributions are put to good use.

Signs of a Charity Scam

These days, fundraisers (groups that solicit funds on behalf of organizations) use the phone, face-to-face contact, email, the internet (including social networking sites), and mobile devices to solicit and obtain donations. Naturally, scammers use these same methods to take advantage of your goodwill. Regardless of how they reach you, avoid any charity or fundraiser that:

Refuses to provide detailed information about its identity, mission, costs, and how the donation will be used.
Won’t provide proof that a contribution is tax deductible.
Uses a name that closely resembles that of a better-known, reputable organization.
Asks for donations in cash or asks you to wire money.
For more information, visit ftc.gov/charityfraud.com

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Healing Hugs Across the Nation – Travel Fund for Michelle

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Unstoppable Michelle

Psychopaths cannot be understood in terms of antisocial rearing or development. They are simply morally depraved individuals who represent the “monsters” in our society. They are UNSTOPPABLE and untreatable predators whose violence is planned, purposeful and emotionless.

Their emotionlessness reflects a detached, fearless, and possibly dissociated state, revealing a low-state autonomic nervous system and lack of anxiety. It’s difficult to say what motivates them – control and dominance possibly – since their life history will usually show no long-standing bonds with others nor much rhyme to their reason (other than the planning of violence).

They tend to operate with a grandiose demeanor, an attitude of entitlement, an insatiable appetite, and a tendency toward sadism. Fearlessness is probably the prototypical (core) characteristic (the low-fear hypothesis). It’s helpful to think of them as high-speed vehicles with ineffective brakes.

How Psychopaths View The World

Not only do they covet possessions and power, but they gain special pleasure in usurping and taking from others (a symbolic sibling, for example); what they can plagiarize, swindle, and extort are fruits far sweeter than those they can earn through honest labor.

And once having drained what they can from one source, they turn to another to exploit, bleed, and then cast aside; their pleasure in the misfortune of others is unquenchable. People are used as a means to an end; they are to be subordinated and demeaned so that the antisocial can vindicate themselves…

The psychopath is a manipulator, who knows exactly what makes us tick and knows how to manipulate and influence our feelings.

They have the talent to spot “kind, caring” women.

Mimicry is often used to convince others that the psychopath is a normal human being. He does this to create a false empathy with his victim. The psychopath will try to make you believe he has normal emotions by spinning some sad tale or professing profound, moving experiences; the truth is, most psychopaths go through life as in an incubator, touched by few and having no real compassion for others; but they will lie to convince you that they have normal emotions.

The pity factor is one reason why victims often fall for these “poor” people.

Lying is like breathing to the psychopath. When caught in a lie and challenged, they make up new lies, and don’t care if they’re found out. As Hare states,

“Lying, deceiving, and manipulation are natural talents for psychopaths…When caught in a lie or challenged with the truth, they are seldom perplexed or embarrassed — they simply change their stories or attempt to rework the facts so that they appear to be consistent with the lie. The results are a series of contradictory statements and a thoroughly confused listener.” [Hare].

Often, their behavior serves to confuse and repress their victims, or to influence anyone who might listen to the psychopath’s side of the story.

Manipulation is the key to their conquests, and lying is one way they achieve this.

One almost amusing example of how psychopaths lie can be exemplified by a man who’s footprint was discovered at the scene of the crime. “No, that’s not my foot” he said, even though everyone knew he was lying.

This is how psychopaths operate. They will deny reality until their victims have a nervous breakdown. Often, the psychopath will turn on the victim and claim that the victim suffers from “delusions” and is not mentally stable.

The psychopath is primarily distracted and impressed by his own grandiose self-representation, which often leads to him unwittingly telling people things that lead to his detection. They often forget the lies they told and tell contradicting tales, which often makes the listener wonder if either the psychopath is crazy, although in this case the psychopath isn’t really crazy — he’s just forgotten what lies he’s told.

The most amazing thing, however, is their selective memory. A psychopath might not remember the promises he made to you yesterday, but he will remember something from the past if it suits his purposes in some way. They often do this whenever they’re confronted or caught in a lie.

Most psychopaths are very arrogant and cocky. However, when charming a potential victim, they say all the “right” things and make you believe they are kind-hearted souls; not always, but often enough. The truth is, psychopaths are not altruistic and do not really care about friendships or ties.

There are four (4) different subtypes of psychopaths. The oldest distinction was made by Cleckley back in 1941 between primary and secondary.

PRIMARY PSYCHOPATHS do not respond to punishment, apprehension, stress, or disapproval. They seem to be able to inhibit their antisocial impulses most of the time, not because of conscience, but because it suits their purpose at the time. Words do not seem to have the same meaning for them as they do for us. In fact, it’s unclear if they even grasp the meaning of their own words, a condition that Cleckley called “semantic aphasia.” They don’t follow any life plan, and it seems as if they are incapable of experiencing any genuine emotion.

SECONDARY PSYCHOPATHS are risk-takers, but are also more likely to be stress-reactive, worriers, and guilt-prone. They expose themselves to more stress than the average person, but they are as vulnerable to stress as the average person. (This suggests that they are not “fully psychopathic.” This may be due to distinctive genetic variations.)

They are daring, adventurous, unconventional people who began playing by their own rules early in life. They are strongly driven by a desire to escape or avoid pain, but are unable to resist temptation. As their anxiety increases toward some forbidden object, so does their attraction to it. They live their lives by the lure of temptation. Both primary and secondary psychopaths can be subdivided into:

DISTEMPERED PSYCHOPATHS are the kind that seem to fly into a rage or frenzy more easily and more often than other subtypes. Their frenzy will resemble an epileptic fit. They are also usually men with incredibly strong sex drives, capable of astonishing feats of sexual energy, and seemingly obsessed by sexual urges during a large part of their waking lives. Powerful cravings also seem to characterize them, as in drug addiction, kleptomania, pedophilia, any illicit or illegal indulgence. They like the endorphin “high” or “rush” off of excitement and risk-taking. The serial-rapist-murderer known as the Boston Strangler was such a psychopath.

CHARISMATIC PSYCHOPATHS are charming, attractive liars. They are usually gifted at some talent or another, and they use it to their advantage in manipulating others. They are usually fast-talkers, and possess an almost demonic ability to persuade others out of everything they own, even their lives. Leaders of religious sects or cults, for example, might be psychopaths if they lead their followers to their deaths. This subtype often comes to believe in their own fictions. They are irresistible.

source: http://www.cassiopaea.com/

Michelle is looking for easy money

Guys, Michelle is collecting money for …. NEW LAPTOP, would you like to pre-order book, not printed yet ( will ever be printed?) , or buy advertisement on DRAMA QUEEN website, to help her buy new laptop?
Here is the info:)

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